Why Possibility, Perspective and Empowerment will help you to save a Relationship; And it’s possible to also build a better one than ever! Project Possible When we operate out of a place of possibility, it seems like there’s very little that we cannot achieve. An amazing example of this is the real life story of …
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Is it crazy to imagine that Hostage Negotiation techniques could help your Relationship? We look at why imposing your will upon your partner (or anyone else for that matter) hardly ever works; and why there is always a better way… Ok so you might be wondering what the hell Hostage Negotiation has got to do …
“Tarot Cards are Witchcraft!” is something I have heard people say more than once. As a card-carrying Witch myself I usually shrug and say ‘Whatevs‘ to this sort of thing. Although I am really only very recently out of the broom closet however, I know there is so much misunderstanding & misinformation in the world …
Be Yourself: The Shadow Self & Vulnerability in long term Relationships “Be Yourself, You can’t be anybody else” are some lyrics from a Children’s song by Danny Kaye in the 1970s. It was one that I must have listened to countless times growing up. However, despite all that positive messaging going in, what I found …
The year before I was born, a little movie came out called The Rocky Horror Picture Show. You may have heard of it? Now, as astonishing as it may seem, ‘even back then’, the film was a hit (a modest one but still a hit). However, it’s continued to grow in popularity and has had …
Is believing in Happily Ever After just “Toxic Positivity”? Holly Skey, Founder of Happily Ever After Relationship Training argues both sides of the case… What is Toxic Positivity? A quick Google search gives a couple of impressions about what Toxic Positivity is: “Toxic positivity involves dismissing negative emotions and responding to distress with false reassurances …
As The Matrix Resurrections is currently gracing our cinema screens, I decided that, before I watched it, it was time that I re-watch the original Trilogy to remind myself of what had gone before. And I wondered? Could The Matrix actually provide answers to having a long & happy Marriage? Marriage & The Matrix: Full disclosure …
I don’t know about you, but I LOVE a good declutter. And there’s something about the New Year that just begs us to say ‘out with the old and in with the new!’. Sometimes though, it’s not just our physical space that needs clearing out; we must also turn our attention inwards and find out …
If you still want to believe in the stories you read growing up (& there’s nothing wrong with that by the way), just know this: Happily Ever After is not a Fairy Tale; it’s a Choice. In my line of work I can take a bit of heat from some World-weary souls who think that …
The Secret to having a great Marriage is to be a great Wife… Now before you get all fired up, I am not suggesting taking the women’s movement back to the dark ages. I don’t see the 1950s as the good ol’ days and chauvinism has no place in the modern world thank you very much. So, …
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Ok, suggesting there should be 3 of you in your Relationship may make some of you look twice; it might even make some of you quite mad! But read on to discover a whole new way to approach your Love Relationship (it’s probably not quite what you think!) It’s an easy trap to get caught …
Some years ago, I saw a meme that said: ‘MARRIAGE: Betting someone half your shit that you’re going to love them forever‘. I laughed. More nervously than I cared to admit at the time. You see, (and I don’t know if you relate), despite feeling the happiest I had ever felt and being totally sure …
When it comes to struggling relationships, there’s one thing you’ll hear exasperated couples saying over & over again: “We need to sort out our Communication Problems!” This, my friend, is THE biggest BS you will ever hear (or repeat for that matter). Communication Problems are not the problem and in this article I’ll explain Why. …
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Each month, 1000s of people search for ‘Marriage Counselling Near Me’ on search engines. We often choose to search for someone near us because of convenience or because we are simply not sure where on earth to start… This can be a lengthy, confusing and frustrating search. When your Relationship is in crisis though, you …
