If being in your relationship feels really hard but you
know deep down you really love your partner and
you just want to get back to how things were
then Relationship Training is for you
No matter how hard you try, no matter how much you work at it, and no matter how many bits of advice you might get from friends & family…
Until you learn proven methods for HOW to be in a serious, committed Relationship… (the stuff that we never get taught in the course of a regular education!),
You won’t have the kind of Love Story that you dream about.
Does Any of This Sound Familiar?
- Married or in a Committed Relationship that’s either suddenly hit crisis or been in a slow decline for some time.
- Conscious that things used to be great between you and now you just want to get back to how things were in the beginning…
- Thinking that things need to change but don’t know where to begin or what information to take in/take action on.
- Feeling lonely, disconnected and distant from your spouse.
- Clueless about where on earth it all went wrong and how the hell you’re going to put it right.
- Plagued by heated arguments or stone cold silences – it’s like you just can’t seem to communicate with each other anymore.
- Starving for more affection, attention, romance, desire or passion.
- At the point where you know it’s time to do something about it but you need a strategy to get there that is far more effective than what your friends, family or a couple of posts on social media can tell you to do.
- Not wanting to see a Therapist or Counsellor but instead want the knowledge & experience of someone who has both the technical knowledge AND has been where you are.
- Open to new ideas and ready to start the journey to create a Relationship you really love!
If any of the above (or more) feels familiar to you then:
Relationship Training could be just the answer you’ve been looking for, to finally break through your relationship struggles, get back on the same page and start loving each other to your fullest potential.
Who is this for?
It’s simple. You only need 3 things:
- Curiosity: You want to learn what you need to do to Save, Heal or just Radically Improve your Relationship
- An Open Mind: You’re open to trying new things and are committed to making an amazing change (not just talking about it!)
- A Realistic Attitude: You know that a great Relationship is possible for everyone – it’s not just for people who are ‘lucky’ or ‘special’
At its core, a brilliant relationship is simply a System: What you put in, you get out.
However, most of us don’t see it this way and we don’t realise that our current input is getting us results we simply don’t want.
Why is that though?
Well, that input consists of a selection of Patterns, Strategies & Habits which you have learnt over the course of your life; most of them during the first 7 years in fact, and many of which are not even done consciously.
Like the Marie Kondo of Relationships, I will show you how to clean up & declutter the old stuff that no longer serves you AND be super-selective about the new things that you need to introduce so that your Relationship can once again ‘spark joy’ in your life.
I can show you the exact steps my Husband and I took to turn our Marriage around when we hit crisis (& even though he wasn’t even on board in the beginning) and how we’ve now built a brand new version of our Relationship: One that is better than it ever was.
That is why I chose the name Happily Ever After – because I firmly believe that being in a lasting, happy Marriage is not a Fairy Tale; It’s100% your Choice.
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GET THE COMPLETE 8 WEEK RELATIONSHIP TRAINING
WITH BONUS RESOURCES AND WEEKLY Q&A WITH HOLLY.
What This is Not
- This is not Therapy. You won’t be expected to spill your deepest, darkest secrets to a perfect stranger. Equally you won’t have someone ask you loads of questions but never give you any useful strategies for how to actually deal with your problem. Therapy focuses on your past where Training focuses on your Present & Future. Then works out how to create the most compelling future for You. Just like physical Training though, I can’t do the work for you – this only works if you do!
- This is not about Taking Sides. This process is not designed to prove that you are right and they are wrong. It’s not about accusing, blaming or pointing fingers – though I promise, you will learn how to feel completely listened to & understood. In fact you will learn not only how to take full responsibility for how you are feeling, You will also understand how radically that improves your Relationship. I promise You’ll never see your partner or your Relationship in the same way again.
- This is not an Endless Process. Sometimes seeing a Counsellor or Therapist can feel like you could be talking about your problems forever without any actual resolution on the horizon. This is not only frustrating from an emotional & intellectual point of view, it’s also financially very worrying. Feeling uncertain about your Relationship is stressful enough! I want you to have the certainty of both a specific timeframe and a specific price point.
- This is not a Reason to End the Relationship. If you are entering into this Training & you are in a bad place then perhaps you are looking for reasons to end your Relationship. If that’s the case, this is not for you. This is a constructive process, designed to help you and your Partner learn a huge amount about each other that you are unlikely to have any idea about right now. It’s designed to heal, improve and permanently upgrade your Love Relationship.
If you are ready to dedicate your time to making your Relationship work and are open to learning some amazing new things over the course of 8 weeks, then this is for you!
Like anything in Life, we get the best results when we go ALL IN. We can’t just dip a toe in when it comes to something as big and important as Love. We have to really invest and commit ourselves if we are going to get big results. So if you are definitely not on the fence then this is for you – if you’re sure you really want your Relationship to work then this is for you and if you feel like you want to really invest time into your love life then this is for you.
We need your focus for 2 short months which, when you can have a Lifetime of Happiness at the end of it, is just a drop in the ocean!
And don’t worry if your Partner IS on the Fence. Almost always,1 person in a Couple will be the proactive party, committed to changing the Relationship and, if you are reading this, I imagine that’s you! We do provide you support to help you get your partner on board, and it may take a little time for them to come around, depending on the current state of your Relationship.
Meanwhile, there’s nothing stopping you from grabbing the bull by the horns, starting the Training and learning ways that You can begin to turn your Relationship around, even if you are the only one trying right now.
So What Can I Expect?
Rather like any Marriage or long term Relationship you’ll go through a lot of emotions. There’ll most definitely be a lot of laughs, some fuzzy Lovey stuff and some saucy, sexy talk; there will also be loads of fascinating science, including plenty of psychology which may give rise to both some amazing breakthroughs and some slightly more uncomfortable emotions that you need to take a closer look at. You’ll maybe need to consider some things from your past; or look at some old hurts that the two of you currently struggle to talk about. However, you will learn how to handle this brilliantly so, whilst the idea of being really intimate & honest might scare you right now, soon you’ll be sailing through those awkward conversations like they are the simplest thing in the world!
The Training is packed full of fascinating findings from some of the world’s leading Psychologists, Neuroscientists and Researchers. This scientific knowledge is all combined with a big dollop of Ancient Wisdom from some of the greatest thinkers of all time. This unique combination will give you the very best possible opportunity to become a veritable Relationship over-achiever!
I’ve spent 1000s of hours learning, researching and testing strategies in order to have the best Relationship possible. What this means is that I have done all the long, hard legwork so you don’t have to. You just have to turn up with an open mind, a shiny fresh notepad (if stationery makes you as excited as it makes me then you of course need no prior excuse for this!) and a desire to make a big difference in your love life. If you’re ready to spend some time reflecting on where you are, where you want to be and what you can do to get there then you have the necessary skills to do this!
Because of my own experience of a heartbreaking Relationship fail and the subsequent work I had to put in to get it back on track, I know without doubt what the most effective strategies are for improving your Relationship. These are techniques developed by some of the most brilliant minds in the World, both from the field of Relationships and also Science & Personal Development. What makes this Training so special is that you’re not just learning 1 method or 1 way. I’ve packed all the most effective strategies into this Training. They have been combined & distilled down so only the very most effective parts remain; and I’ve made them super-easy to understand & implement for You.